A Project on Motherhood 

Do you ever have those ideas whilst you’re washing up? Those ideas which creep up on you, and then you find you can’t ignore?

This happened to me recently, as I washed up a soup pan and thought about motherhood (note: I am often thinking about motherhood!). About how rich and overwhelming and wonderful and complex and hard the experience of motherhood is. About how much mothers have to offer others from their own experiences, and about how rare it is for those experiences to be voiced and truly heard. About how we have so much more in common than we do that divides us; yet we are all so different in our experience of motherhood and the unique challenges we face and joys we embrace.

Anyway, the moment passed, and then something reminded me of a mixtape swap I took part in when I was younger. It was as simple as it sounds; sign up, send someone you don’t know a mixtape, get one back in return. It was great. And I thought, I wish there was a mixtape swap for mothers, where we could swap not music, but our experiences. Our joys, our sorrows. The hard bits and the happy bits. A swap where we could share a little bit of our lives, safely, anonymously, with no one judging, knowing that our stories were being heard.

And thus the idea behind #lettersfrommothers. An anonymous letter-swap, where we can share our stories, our experiences, and our motherhood. A project to give voice to mothers’ stories from around the world. A space for us to hear each other.

GET INVOLVED

I would love as many mothers to join in as possible.

Email me fridabemighty[at]gmail[dot]com with your name and address with “LETTERS FROM MOTHERS” as the title. The only requirements are: being a mother (or grandmother!); willingness to read and write in English (it doesn’t matter if it’s not your first language); and being open to sending a letter to another mother anywhere in the world. Once you’ve emailed me I will send you full instructions and all the information you need. 

I will also take part, and I’ll be posting one of my favourite books to whoever recieves my letter.

I’m really excited to see where this idea goes, and I would love it if lots of you took part and encouraged others to take part too.

THE LETTERS:

“Being a mum is the single hardest thing I have ever done.”

“I would like to appeal to you to look at mothers of kids with special needs just like you would look at other mothers.”

“I suppose that it what continues to surprise me about motherhood, the raw, unconditional love that we have the capacity to feel.”

“My journey is not a long one, but it feels as though I have come a long way.”